What do I do on Valentine's Day when my husband is...
at work from 6:30(AM!) until 5
studying from 5 until 7
and at class from 7 until 10?
Blog about it, of course.
Me, being a complete hopeless romantic the majority of my life
was a little disappointed on the fact that our first Valentine's Day of marriage fell on a Tuesday this year...
our longest day of the week when we hardly see each other at all.
Although sad, it is ok because Valentine's Day is really just a day.
I love the idea of it
{having one day of the year that just is completely devoted to anything and everything that involves loving people close to you}
But this day does not determine our love for each other.
In fact, I do not think there should be just one day of the year that should celebrate love.
I actually think there should not be even one day that goes with out expressing love to those you care so deeply about.
Although I think everyday should involve expressions of love,
In the spirit of Valentine's Day here are a few things about Clark that I am just so grateful for and that somewhat define what love means to me.
He is so cute.
I love the fact that Clark literally is the only person who truly gets me for me.
He accepts me for my many shortcomings and loves me deeply for my few strengths.
He doesn't get frustrated at the fact that I get sad, sensitive, and moody probably more than the average person.
He is the only guy who has ever made me think instantly after I met him "I want to marry someone exactly like that someday".
He is the only guy who for 2 years of my life (and plus) was the first person I thought about when I woke up in the morning.
with that, he is the only person that I have wanted so badly to be in my life more than anyone else I have ever met.
He is the only person who has made me want to be better and actually feel as though I have to be my absolute best in order to deserve even having him in my life.
He is the only person I feel confident in being the best father of my future children someday.
He is the only person (other than my sisters) who I feel like I can just let go and go crazy with.
I love the fact that although a HUGE Utah fan, Clark transferred schools, took a crazy full time job, and moved down to Provo just because he knew how much graduating from BYU meant to me.
I love the fact that he supports me in all of my way ambitious goals in life.
(and actually thinks I can accomplish them!)
He makes me feel love every single day and is the only person that I never have to question it.
He is the only person who has influenced me the most in constantly strengthening my relationship with God.
He is the only person I want with me by my side for the rest of my existence.
Although we are still getting to know each other more and more and our relationship is not perfect,
I know with out a doubt that Clark is the most perfect person for me to live and to grow with.
I love him with all of my heart.
I would not say that he is the only good person out there, but he is the only perfect person out there for me.
Find that person who makes you feel like you aren't missing out on anything else in life.
(...we are all in the mood for sharing some love, right?)
would anyone be interested in volunteering with me Thursday or Friday from 3-4:30?
What it is is an opportunity to share love and encouragement to at risk youth who don't get much of it in their lives and at home.
We will be going to Independence High School
{636 North Independence Avenue, Provo, UT}
And will be mentoring as well as tutoring at risk adolescents.
The students don't just need people to help them with their homework
more just the feeling that what they're doing and who they are matters.
So, if anyone is willing to give up an hour and a half of their time to help share the meaning of love please please let me know!
Get back to me ASAP by text, e-mail, phone call, blog post...whatever!
515.291.3995
kool_48@hotmail.com
p.s. I do not have a form of transportation yet (unless we all want to ride the bus together) so if anyone would be willing to drive that would be greatly appreciated!
"Be the change that you want to see in the world." -Mahatma Gandhi
But like honestly... do you really know what it's like?
I've said this a few times on here but just in case anyone has forgotten my major, it is Human Development
and this semester I am taking an Adult Aging class.
Sounds pretty boring I bet but it's actually gotten me to think about things that I've never realized before
(and i've only had 3 classes so far!)
K but really
Have you ever thought about what life might feel like to your grandparents?
They were once like us you know, they were once young and active and could get out and do things.
I know they may seem like they want to be alone and that they like keeping to themselves
but have you ever thought that maybe it's harder for them to even leave their house?
A lot of their loneliness isn't a choice but more a result of life.
A sad thing that happens to them is people start moving away and don't make the effort that can't be made from the other end.
Because of that older people are discriminated against.
They are looked at as boring, grumpy, and quiet.
But I am sure your grandparents would love if you just took the time to sit with them and ask them about their life.
Your grandparents have lived for decades, they have seen so much in their lifetime if you really think about it.
I know they have a loads of interesting things they could tell you.
I'm not meaning to be preachy but I think a lot of people (especially my age) haven't taken the time to really get to know these people who have influenced more of your life than you probably know.
I have been so fortunate to have lived with my grandparents and gotten to know them.
I love that I can just call up my grandma and talk to her about anything, honest to goodness.
I just hope everyone can step out of their shoes for a second and imagine how your grandparents may be feeling in their life right now.
How would you feel if you lived alone?
And imagine how it would feel to them if you took the time to call and see how they're doing, or go over to their house and instead of turning on the t.v. or just eating dinner,
actually sit down and get to know them.
I can promise it will end up meaning so much to the both of you!
Exactly today, Clark and I have been married for 5 months but something else that is cool is exactly one year from today Clark and I had been reunited from him being on his mission for 2 years.
A TON has happened in the past year as well as in the past 5 months.
5 things I have learned from being married for 5 months:
Time is not the most important factor to determine readiness/happiness of marriage.
It is necessary to tell your hubby exactly what you want/feel/need because he can't read your mind.
Being married is a lot more fun and less scary than it seems when you're getting married.
Cereal really is one of the best, quickest foods to eat when you're hungry.
Being married to your best friend is the best thing in the world.
31 pictures to recap the past year with Clarkie Bear:
Clark came home!
At the beginning we had many group dates - Sundance
Dancing it up at Kyle's - this was actually our first date in 2 years!
We road tripped to Six Flags and spent the day in the Pouring Rain
While we were in cali we hung out with J&C
We made it to a JAZZ game!
Had lots of fun times on Bonnie Brae Ave
We got to see my niece a lot in Park City
And went to our first official formal dance at BYU
We watched Conference at Temple Square
And Clark helped me run my first 5K race!
Got crazy at some sweet dance parties!
We got engaged on April 4, 2011
I took Clark on my family's traditional hike to the Beaver Ponds
We attended Clark's brother's Wedding
Spent a weekend trip with my family in Southern Utah
And had a crazy spontaneous day - at Parachute's concert!
We made it to the pre-party of HP7P2 but left before the movie started because I got sick
Went on a trip to Jackson Hole/the Tetons with the Brimhalls
and went to the beautiful wedding of one of my roommates
Had a crazy time of getting lost on our way to our engagement Session
And got sealed on August 5, 2011 for time and eternity
Went cruisin' in Mexico for our honeymoon!
Kind of went camping on my 21st birthday
We spent our first Halloween together as a Lion and a Hillbilly
And had fun in the fall
Went to Iowa for Thanksgiving to visit my momma
And had a fun party for Clark's 22nd birthday
Had our first Christmas together (sadly, this was the only pic we had)
And hit up the ski slopes at Brighton the day after Christmas!
This year also consisted of many intense games of Legretto!
That was our fun crazy and eventful year in a nutshell.
